Questions men ask
Do I have to ask my parents how my bris was done?
No. It can help, but it isn’t required, and many men would rather not ask.
What helps, if you happen to know it
If you know who performed your bris, or whether it was done at home, in a shul or in a hospital, that can be useful. If you don’t know, that’s fine.
A private check usually tells us what we need to know, without anyone else being involved.
Your choice, your timing
If you do decide to ask, that is up to you, and so is when. Nobody needs to know you have contacted me.
See also: Can I come just for a check first? · Not sure your brit was kosher?
One private conversation.
It costs nothing, commits you to nothing, and stays between us.